A step-by-step guide for moms considering divorce or starting the process—get informed, stay in control, and protect your future.
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Divorce can feel like stepping into the unknown—with everything on the line and no clear path forward.
You can go in overwhelmed, unprepared, and unsure of what to expect…
Or you can go in with eyes wide open—armed with a plan that protects your peace, your kids, and your future.
Before you hire that high-priced attorney or walk into mediation without a strategy, give yourself the clarity and confidence this moment calls for. This step-by-step roadmap is part guidebook, part online course, and part coach-in-your-pocket—designed for moms who are considering divorce or navigating the early stages of separation.
You’ll walk through the five key areas of divorce—legal, financial, emotional, logistical, and parenting—so you can get organized, understand your options, and create a plan that’s realistic, child-centered, and aligned with the life you want to build next.
As a special bonus for waitlisters who order during the pre-order period, you’ll get exclusive access to the Smart Mom’s Starter Kit—a curated selection of downloadable, editable templates pulled from the full Smart Mom’s Divorce Toolkit. These powerful tools are designed to make divorce prep easier by helping you get organized, feel more in control, and start planning the smart way—before the legal bills start piling up.
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Designed to help you get organized, feel more in control, and take those first important steps—without the overwhelm. This kit is only offered as a bonus to waitlisters who purchase during the pre-order period. Here’s what’s inside:
Financial Readiness Checklist – Get a clear picture of where you stand financially and what documents to gather now, so you’re not scrambling later.
Divorce Attorney & Mediator Interview Guide – Ask smarter questions, make more informed decisions, and avoid wasting time or money.
Basic Parenting Plan Worksheet – Start outlining your co-parenting goals in a way that supports your kids and quiets some of the fear about what’s next.
The Smart Mom's Starter Kit is valued at $40, but it's yours FREE when you join the waitlist and purchase The Exit Strategy during the pre-order period. The kit will be released at the same time as the guide.
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Pre-order customers will have the chance to upgrade to the The Smart Mom's Divorce Power Pack, which includes both A Life Reimagined: The Exit Strategy and The Smart Mom’s Divorce Toolkit at a limited-time, discounted price.
The Smart Mom’s Divorce Toolkit gives you access to my full suite of customizable templates and checklists to help you stay focused and in control through every phase of divorce.
When you walk into an attorney consultation or mediation session already organized, informed, and clear on your goals—you save money, reduce stress, and avoid costly detours. Because when you have the right tools in front of you, everything feels a little more doable.
A clear, strategic roadmap can replace the panic, paralysis, and “What now?” spiral.
Imagine waking up and not feeling paralyzed by fear or uncertainty. Instead of second-guessing every move, you have a clear plan—a thoughtful, informed exit strategy that reflects your values, protects your kids, and gives you back a sense of control. You finally feel grounded, steady, and confident in the steps ahead.
When the fear gets loud…
When the questions won’t stop circling…
When the thought of turning your life upside down feels almost too heavy to carry—
You are not crazy for thinking about leaving.
You are not selfish for wanting peace.
And you are absolutely not alone in this.
There is a way through this chaos that doesn’t involve blowing through your savings, losing yourself, or feeling like a failure as a mom.
But here’s the truth no one tells you:
You can’t just wing your way through divorce and hope it works out.
Not when your kids, your future, and your emotional well-being are on the line.
And yet, so many of us try—because we don’t know where to begin.
We don’t know who to trust.
We wonder things like…
• How do I know if I’m ready to leave—or just overwhelmed?
• What should I even be doing before I tell anyone?
• Will I ruin my kids if I get this wrong?
• What questions should I ask a lawyer?
• Can I actually afford to do this?
And so, we freeze. We spiral.
We go quiet. Or we go on autopilot.
Because you don’t need 500 Google tabs or another opinion from someone who’s never lived this.
You need clarity.
You need a plan.
You need a trusted voice to help you take the next right step.
That’s what A Life Reimagined: The Exit Strategy delivers.
Not pressure. Not noise. Just grounded, honest guidance—so you can move forward with more peace, more power, and more confidence in what comes next.
there's a lot more to consider than you think
This guide walks you through the five core areas every mom needs to consider when preparing for divorce.
Most moms don’t realize how many moving parts there are until they’re already knee-deep in the process—trying to juggle legal meetings, emotional breakdowns, financial stress, and parenting struggles all at once. That’s why this guide is organized around the five key areas of divorce, so you can see the full picture and make more informed, intentional decisions every step of the way. No fluff. No guesswork. Just clear, actionable insight to help you stay grounded and in control.
Understand the basic legal process of divorce — what you need to know early, what you can (and can’t) control, and how to start building a team of professionals that support your goals without breaking the bank.
You’ll Learn:
Divorce process overview and options (filing, mediation, court, agreements)
What you need to know about divorce laws in your state
Making sense of the paperwork
Questions to ask when hiring an attorney or mediator
Common legal myths that keep moms stuck and scared
Get crystal clear on your financial reality so you can make informed, empowered decisions — not emotional ones.
You’ll Learn:
What financial documents to gather and organize now
How to create a realistic post-divorce budget
Understand your settlement options
What every mom should know about support and shared expenses
The keys to financial independence
Financial mistakes to avoid when emotions are high
Divorce isn’t just legal and emotional — it’s a logistical project. We’ll tackle how to plan for the real-world shifts that will happen in your daily life.
You’ll Learn:
How to create an exit timeline that protects you and your kids
What steps to take when planning for separation
Housing considerations and transitional planning
How to plan “the talk” with your spouse in an honorable and safe way
How to divide “all the stuff” and their role in negotiations
Divorce is a marathon, not a sprint. You’ll learn how to manage fear, grief, anger, and uncertainty so you can move forward powerfully — not from a place of pain.
You’ll Learn:
How to ready yourself for co-parenting and time without the kids
How to set boundaries without guilt
Tools for emotional regulation during tough conversations
How to rebuild your mental and emotional core
Practices to rediscover yourself and develop your confidence and resilience
You’re not just divorcing your spouse — you’re protecting your children’s future too. We’ll dive into parenting plans, communication strategies, and ways to keep your kids emotionally safe.
You’ll Learn:
How to tell the kids in an age-appropriate and supportive way
How to choose the right co-parenting style for your situation
How to begin crafting a Parenting Plan that addresses your children’s needs and your concerns
Ways to support your children emotionally during transitions
Strategies for minimizing conflict in front of kids
You don’t get a do-over—start smart with the plan you deserve.